THE CALL TO TOTAL SURRENDER AND ETERNAL REWARD IN CHRIST Living for God Rather Than for Self in a World of Deception By: Major Frank Materu
Key Scripture
“For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.” — Matthew 16:25 (KJV)
“I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God.” — Romans 12:1 (KJV)
“And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony.” — Revelation 12:11 (KJV)
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Introduction
Human existence is fundamentally shaped by a continuous decision between self-centered living and God-centered living. From the beginning of time, humanity has been confronted with the temptation to live independently from God, seeking personal control, self-fulfillment, and autonomous direction apart from divine guidance. This self-directed path, however, has consistently led to spiritual separation, moral corruption, and eternal destruction.
In contrast, God calls His people into a life of surrender, obedience, trust, and total devotion. This divine call is not a suggestion but a pathway to true life, peace, purpose, and eternal reward. The Lord does not delight in those who attempt to preserve their own lives through selfish ambition, worldly pursuit, or fleshly indulgence. Instead, He delights in those who willingly surrender their lives into His hands and allow His Spirit to govern their thoughts, desires, and actions.
The message of Scripture consistently reveals that self-preservation apart from God leads to loss, while surrender to God leads to eternal gain. Jesus Christ Himself is the perfect example of obedience, humility, and sacrificial love. He did not pursue His own will but fully submitted to the will of the Father, even unto death on the cross. His life stands as the ultimate pattern for all believers who desire to walk in truth.
This lesson explores the danger of self-centered living, the eternal consequences of choosing the flesh, the example of Christ’s obedience, the importance of walking under the Holy Spirit’s guidance, the reality of eternal judgment, and the blessing of total surrender to God. It is a call to abandon deception, embrace truth, and live fully for the One who gives eternal life.

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THE DANGER OF LIVING FOR SELF
“He that loveth his life shall lose it; and he that hateth his life in this world shall keep it unto life eternal.” — John 12:25 (KJV)
Self-centered living is one of the greatest spiritual dangers facing humanity. It is the condition in which individuals prioritize personal desires, ambitions, comfort, and control above the will of God. This lifestyle appears appealing because it promises independence and fulfillment, yet it ultimately leads to spiritual emptiness and eternal loss.
When people insist on controlling their own lives apart from God, they place themselves in opposition to divine wisdom. Human understanding is limited, but God’s wisdom is infinite. Choosing self-direction over divine direction results in confusion, deception, and eventual destruction.
The desire to preserve one’s own life often manifests through pride, fear, greed, and resistance to God’s authority. People become focused on protecting their image, securing their future, and fulfilling their desires while neglecting their spiritual condition.
However, Scripture consistently warns that such an approach leads to death. The pursuit of self apart from God does not produce true life; it produces bondage, anxiety, and separation from eternal truth.
God calls believers to abandon self-centered living and embrace surrender. True life is not found in control but in submission to the Creator who knows all things and governs all reality.
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THE TRAGEDY OF SPIRITUAL DECEPTION AND LOST ETERNITY
“There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.” — Proverbs 14:12 (KJV)
One of the most tragic realities of human existence is that many people live and die believing they are on the right path while actually walking toward destruction. Deception is powerful because it convinces individuals that their choices are correct even when they are spiritually dangerous.
The world often promotes self-will as freedom, but in reality, it leads to spiritual slavery. Many individuals reject God’s truth because they desire autonomy, yet that very rejection places them under the control of sinful desires and spiritual darkness.
The consequences of rejecting God are eternal. Scripture clearly warns that eternal separation from God is real, and that those who persist in rebellion will face judgment. This reality is not meant to instill fear for its own sake but to awaken repentance and urgency.
The tragedy of lost eternity is that it results from choices made in this life. Every decision to reject truth, resist correction, or embrace sin contributes to spiritual separation from God.
God desires that none should perish, but that all should come to repentance. His warning is an expression of love, calling humanity away from destruction and into life.
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THE PERFECT EXAMPLE OF JESUS CHRIST
“He humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.” — Philippians 2:8 (KJV)
Jesus Christ stands as the ultimate example of obedience, surrender, and faithfulness to God. Unlike humanity, which often seeks personal advantage and self-preservation, Christ willingly surrendered everything for the purpose of fulfilling the Father’s will.
His obedience was not partial or conditional. It was complete, even unto death. The cross represents the highest expression of love, sacrifice, and submission to divine authority.
Through His obedience, Christ provided salvation for humanity. No one could achieve reconciliation with God through human effort, but through Christ’s sacrifice, the door to eternal life was opened.
Believers are called to follow this same pattern. To be a disciple of Christ means to imitate His surrender, humility, and obedience. It means prioritizing God’s will above personal desire, comfort, or ambition.
True Christianity is not merely belief in Christ but participation in His way of life—one of surrender, obedience, and devotion to God.

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LIVING UNDER THE GUIDANCE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT
“For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.” — Romans 8:14 (KJV)
God never intended believers to live independently of His guidance. The Holy Spirit was given to lead believers into truth, protect them from deception, and empower them to live righteously.
Many spiritual failures occur when individuals ignore or resist the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Instead of listening to divine direction, they follow emotions, desires, or worldly influences. This results in confusion, poor decisions, and spiritual vulnerability.
The Holy Spirit provides discernment, enabling believers to recognize truth from deception. He also strengthens believers to resist temptation and walk in holiness.
Walking in the Spirit requires continual sensitivity, humility, and obedience. It involves daily surrender and willingness to be corrected and guided by God.
Those who follow the Spirit experience peace, wisdom, and spiritual clarity. Their lives become aligned with God’s purpose rather than personal ambition.
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THE REALITY OF SIN AND ITS CONSEQUENCES
“Be sure your sin will find you out.” — Numbers 32:23 (KJV)
Sin carries consequences that cannot be avoided. While it may offer temporary pleasure, it ultimately produces bondage, shame, guilt, and spiritual death. Sin deceives by presenting itself as desirable, but its final outcome is destruction.
Those who live according to the flesh eventually experience emptiness and dissatisfaction. Sin never fulfills its promises because it is rooted in deception.
The more individuals yield to sin, the more they become enslaved by it. What begins as a choice becomes a habit, and what becomes a habit becomes bondage.
God calls His people to recognize the seriousness of sin and to turn away from it through repentance. Through Christ, freedom from sin is available, but it must be embraced through obedience and surrender.
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THE BLESSING OF TOTAL SURRENDER
“Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.” — Proverbs 3:5 (KJV)
Total surrender to God is the pathway to true life, peace, and eternal reward. Surrender does not mean loss of identity but restoration of divine purpose. When individuals surrender to God, they are freed from deception, bondage, and destruction.
God honors those who honor Him. Those who place their trust in Him discover that His plans are greater than human imagination. His guidance leads to life, wisdom, and eternal blessing.
Surrender brings clarity, peace, and spiritual strength. It aligns the believer with divine truth and protects them from deception.
God does not take away life; He gives life in abundance. True fulfillment is found not in self-rule but in divine rule.
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Summary
God calls humanity to abandon self-centered living and embrace total surrender to Him. Self-preservation apart from God leads to destruction, while surrender to God leads to eternal life.
Jesus Christ is the perfect example of obedience and surrender, demonstrating the path every believer must follow. The Holy Spirit guides believers into truth, protects them from deception, and empowers them to live righteously.
Sin leads to bondage and death, but surrender to God leads to freedom, peace, and eternal reward.

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Conclusion
Life presents a continual choice between self-rule and God-rule. Those who choose self inevitably experience loss, while those who choose God experience eternal gain. The call of God is not to partial commitment but to total surrender.
Jesus Christ demonstrated the ultimate example of obedience, and believers are called to follow Him fully. Through the Holy Spirit, believers are empowered to walk in truth, resist deception, and live in righteousness.
May every believer choose the path of surrender, obedience, and faithfulness to God, knowing that eternal life is found only in Him.
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Call to Action
Examine your heart today and identify any areas of self-will, resistance to God, or reliance on personal control. Surrender every aspect of your life to Jesus Christ.
Commit yourself to daily obedience, prayer, and sensitivity to the Holy Spirit. Choose to live for God rather than for self, and allow Him to direct your steps.
Reject deception and embrace truth. Choose eternal life over temporary gain.
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Final Word of Encouragement
God is faithful to those who trust Him completely. No surrender to Him is ever wasted, and no obedience goes unnoticed. He rewards those who diligently seek Him and walk in His ways.
Even when the journey of surrender feels difficult, remember that God’s plan is always greater than human understanding. He leads His people into life, peace, and eternal joy.
Remain steadfast, remain faithful, and continue walking in total dependence upon God.
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Salvation Prayer
Heavenly Father, I come before You today acknowledging that I am a sinner in need of Your mercy and forgiveness. I repent of all my sins and ask You to cleanse me through the precious blood of Jesus Christ.
Lord Jesus, I believe that You died for my sins and rose again so that I may receive eternal life. Today I surrender my life completely to You.
Take full control of my heart, my mind, my desires, and my future. Deliver me from self-will, deception, and sin. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit and teach me to walk in obedience and truth.
Help me to live for You alone and not for myself. Guide me into Your perfect will and keep me faithful to the end.
Thank You for Your grace, mercy, and salvation. I declare that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior forever.
In Jesus Christ’s mighty name, Amen.
