How to Avoid Doing Things That Will Make You Regret By Major Frank Materu
Introduction
In Colossians 3:1-3, we are reminded that our lives are hidden with Christ in God, and we are called to set our minds on things above, not on earthly things.
It is through this divine focus and by submitting to God's will that we avoid decisions and actions that may lead to regret. When we live in alignment with God's purpose, He guards our steps, and we experience His protection and blessing.
The path to avoiding regret lies in surrendering to God's will, resisting temptation, and choosing His wisdom over worldly desires.
1. Set Your Mind on Heavenly Things
Scripture: Colossians 3:1-3
To avoid regret, we must focus on things above—things that align with God's purpose for our lives. Worldly temptations may pull us in many directions, but when we seek God's kingdom first, we are guided away from the things that can lead us astray.
Supportive Scripture:
“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” (Matthew 6:33)
2. Submit to God and Resist the Devil
Scripture: James 4:7-8
When we resist temptation and submit to God, He draws near to us, offering His strength to overcome the schemes of the enemy. It's crucial not to give in to the desires of the flesh but to submit ourselves to God’s will, knowing that He has a greater plan for us.
Supportive Scripture:
“Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” (James 4:7)
3. Trust in God’s Wisdom, Not Your Own
Scripture: Proverbs 3:5-6
When we lean on our own understanding, we can easily make decisions that lead to regret. But when we trust in God’s wisdom, He will direct our paths, guiding us toward choices that honor Him and bring true fulfillment.
Supportive Scripture:
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.” (Proverbs 3:5-6)
4. Recognize the Consequences of Sin
Scripture: Hebrews 2:2-3
Neglecting the salvation and wisdom God offers leads to consequences. Every act of disobedience has its reward, and those rewards are often painful regrets. Understanding the seriousness of sin and its consequences can help us avoid paths that lead to regret.
Supportive Scripture:
“Do not be deceived: God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.” (Galatians 6:7)
5. Be Transformed into a New Creation
Scripture: 2 Corinthians 5:17
Through Christ, we are made new. Our old ways of thinking and living should be left behind, and we should embrace the new life He offers. When we are rooted in Christ, our decisions reflect His love and wisdom, leading us away from paths that would cause regret.
Supportive Scripture:
“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.” (2 Corinthians 5:17)
Conclusion
The way to avoid regret is by living with a mindset that seeks God's will above all else. When we set our minds on things above, submit to God, resist temptation, trust in His wisdom, and embrace the new life He offers, we will find ourselves making decisions that lead to peace, joy, and fulfillment. We must trust that God’s plan for us is far better than the fleeting pleasures of the world and choose His ways every day. Let us strive to live in a way that pleases God, knowing that He is the source of true satisfaction and fulfillment.
